a deacon's heart. . .

Monday, August 31, 2009

Looking Ahead to VBS 2010


I know what you are thinking. . . I cannot begin to think about VBS, I have Sunday School knocking on my front door, not to mention teacher training, organizing small groups, youth kick-off, resources to order and organize, DO NOT MENTION VBS RIGHT NOW! It is too early to plan for VBS 2010, however, while the Vacation Bible School experience is still fresh on your mind, gather some of this year's VBS servants together and have a brainstorming session.

A few things you may want to ponder together:
  • Are you satisfied with the Publishers of the curriculum you are using? Does the theology fit the vision and mission of your congregation?

  • Does your VBS have an outreach component?

  • Are your doors open to the children in your community? Youth? Adults?

  • How would you evaluate your publicity of your event? Was it effective or in-effective?

  • How can we grow our current Vacation Bible School model into a significant step in Disciple making?

  • Did you struggle getting "servants" (vs. volunteers) to sign up to help?

  • Is your current model of training, supporting, and thanking your servants effective? If not, what do you need to change?

A couple of months ago, I invited churches in the WNCC to share about their Vacation Bible School experiences, curriculum used, as well as the inclusion of a mission component. If you click on VBS - it will lead you to the responses I received from folks in our conference. I am certain they would be more than happy to be a conversation partner with you and your coordinators.

Educators and Missionaries in the Western North Carolina Conference have been working to create a VBS based on missions which includes the life and stories of children in Southeast Asia. Our goal is to have this curriculum available in the spring of 2010 as a PDF down loadable format. Stay tuned for upcoming posts of this VBS curriculum.

Until then, have fun dreaming together of ways we can truly vacation in the words, visions, and dreams of the Bible come to life.



Friday, August 28, 2009

Safe Sanctuary Training. . .



Will he held for the Western North Carolina Conference of The United Methodist Church on:
  • Wednesday, September 2 in Asheville NC
  • Thursday, September 3rd in Winston-Salem NC

We will take a look at the new issues concerning Cyber Safety and the Vulnerability of Older Adults. We will also host questions concerning Jessica's Law.

There is still time to register for either one of these Safe Sanctuary training events. Deadline for registration is Tuesday, September 1st.

Hope to see you there!

When was it we saw you a stranger and welcomed you?

"Lord, when was it that we saw you hungry and gave you food, or thirsty and gave you something to drink? And when was it that we saw you a stranger and welcomed you, or naked and gave you clothing? And when was it that we you sick or in prison and visited you? And the king will answer them, Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me. "
When was it that we saw you a stranger and welcomed you? There are two words that stand out in this part of the gospel message; the word saw and welcomed.
The word saw, past tense for see, seeing, or having being seen, requires an awareness or awakening of our visual senses. It implies our eyes are opened and we are paying attention. Let me say that again. . . our eyes are open; to the needs of those around us.

Not only do we see who is around us, but the eyes of our hearts are moving with compassion, grace, and love, being attentive to the needs of others. We welcomed you as the incarnation of Christ to the world. We reminded you of the value your life holds. We worked to salvage and protect your dignity, allowing you opportunity to bask in the grace and love of Jesus. "For it was you who formed my inward parts; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully meade." Psalm 139:13-14
We vow to take care of you,
to love you through the love of Christ,
to help you pick up your mat and walk.

God of all creation,
Open the eyes of our hearts to see and know the needs of your world.
Empower us, your people to see all creation with your eyes,
valued, wonderfully made, and unconditionally loved.
Open the eyes of our hearts Lord.
Open the eyes of our hearts.
Open our eyes.
We want to see you.

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Rule of St. Benedict. . .

Let us get up then,

at long last,

for the Scriptures rouse us when they say:

It is high time for us

to arise from sleep.

Let us open our eyes

to the light that comes from God,

and our ears to the voice from heaven

that every day calls out this charge:

If you hear his voice today,

do not harden your hearts.

Rule of St. Benedict

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Seven words that kill the spirit and life of a congregation. . .

WE HAVEN'T DONE IT THAT WAY BEFORE!
Really?

What are you implying when you speak those words?


What does it feels like to have these words thrown your way?


I confess the first thing I hear is the slamming of a door. Boom - I'm done!

My gut reaction is to turn and run the other way.
You just as well put a big neon sign in the front of your church signifying:
closed to progress,
closed to the movement of the spirit,
closed to and for life!

Really?
I just cannot imagine God's preferred vision for the kingdom sitting idle because we are fearful of moving in and towards a direction we do not know. These seven words have the potential of paralyzing a congregation with their inability to change.
Change signifies movement.
Change can be very exciting.

I have learned that some folks not only embrace change, but are looking for it in every aspect of life, while others do everything in their power to avoid such movement.
Change is the one and only constant in our lives outside of the abundant unconditional love and grace of God.
Our bodies change, our climate is changing, our minds are changing. . . why not our attitudes?
Imagine for a moment if you will, a life without change. . .
Scary isn't it? Transportation would not exist as we know it, nor would our modes of communication. No television, radio, computer, cell phone . . . hard to allow your minds to go there? It is for me.

The Spirit of God is moving, flowing, rushing like a mighty river. Are we as a church going to plant our feet in the every flowing steam of life because we are afraid of what might lie ahead, staggering to keep our balance or our we going to jump in, flowing with the rushing, changing, current of life?
What direction is God leading you. . .

The folks in the life of your congregation?

In ways that best honor God's kingdom here on earth?

In the community?

Into the world?

Maybe, we will never do it that way again.
Maybe, just maybe that is what God is calling us to imagine.
God is calling us:
to movement
to change,
to life!




Thursday, August 20, 2009

Leadership and Self Deception


getting out of the box
The Arbinger Institute

I like to consider myself one who thinks and lives outside the box. However, this read gracefully led me to a deeper examination of my own character encouraging me to reconsider which side of the box I actually do live in.

"Self-betrayal - is an act contrary to what we feel we should do for another." In other words, we know better but do it anyways. If I cut off someone in traffic, I not only have gotten in their space but potentially put their life in danger. Why then would I do such a thing when I know well the possible consequences. In other words, I have now put the other driver in a position to be aggressive, fearful, or just mad as heck, most likely an act contrary to what they feel they should be doing. So back to the question, why then do we do such things? We are probably functioning out of fear, self-doubt, jealousy, preoccupation, to name a few hopefully contrary to our core!

If we know better, why then do we continue this behavior?
How do we break this cycle of putting others in the box?
If I am functioning in the box, am I building up the body of Christ with my behaviors?

Leadership and Self-Deception is an easy read. Not as complicated as it sounds!
If you find yourself in any leadership role or if you are willing to take a deeper look within, I recommend this resource. It would also be a good read for a team to read together.

Check it out and let me know if you were surprised at what you learned.
Blessings of discovery!

Monday, August 17, 2009

Church and Me. . .



From A to Z
By: Wendi Martin

What a fun discovery for teaching children about the church; the life and body of Christ. Wendi has taken the components of the life and ministry of scripture and the church and provided a wonderful resource for teaching young children.
The front page of the book offers space for children to make this resource personal; inviting them to internalize the words, stories, and images they are experiencing. Each letter of the alphabet represents a word, then defined below and followed by a scripture reference. Wendi uses a caterpillar at the bottom of each page to journey through the alphabet, ending the journey as a beautiful butterfly. Nice! The caterpillar also prompts such questions as: what is special about the sanctuary (S for Sanctuary) in your church? or if they have ever prayed at the altar (yes, A is for altar)?

At the bottom of each page the children are prompted with questions i.e. "what is special about the sanctuary (S-Sanctuary) in your church?" or asking them if they have ever prayed at the altar of their church ( A for Altar). The photo illustrations capture the life and community of Bethlehem United Methodist Church in Climax North Carolina.
It is beautifully created.
Thank you Wendi.

You may purchase a copy of Church and Me From A to Z. You may also reserve a copy of this resource and other valuable resources to use in your congregation from the Fishin Hole, the Western North Carolina Conference Resource Center.




Tuesday, August 11, 2009

The Joy and Blessing of Affirmations. . .

You know what I am talking about; the occasional "ada-girl" or "great job" we are fortunate enough to get from peers, supervisors, spouses, or on the rare occasion our children. Our need as well as our desire for affirmation is real. I see how Gracie and Zoe, our lab puppies respond to praise. . . there again, they respond to just about anything that has a treat connected with it. 

Think about it, we sometimes work overtime in our jobs for an extra pat on the back. I have watched our adolescent daughter take hours getting ready to be with friends to hear the words: "you look great." Let's face it, affirmations feel good. We want to feel that our life has value, our contributions are valued, and our work is not done in vane. 

Hear the good news: You are fearlessly, marvelously, and wonderfully made. God takes delight in you! How does that feel? Can you allow yourself time to let that sink in? 
YOU, yes you are wonderfully made! 
God takes delight in you. A delight beyond our human understanding. 

As you go forth into this week, this day, even this very moment in time, allow yourself to be lost in the beauty and grace of God's constant presence in your life. 
Hear God speaking these words to you: 
I love you my beloved child.
You are marvelously made. 
You are beautiful in my sight.
I love YOU.

May we strive to honor God in all we do in and with our lives. . . there we will find the ultimate affirmation!       

Friday, August 7, 2009

I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink. . .



"Lord, when was it that we saw you hungry and gave you food, or thirsty and gave you something to drink? And when was it that we saw you a stranger and welcomed you, or naked and gave you clothing? And when was it that we saw you sick or in prison and visited you? And the king will answer them, truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me."
Matthew 25:31-46


While on a mission trip out on the Navajo reservation, we were cleaning around a medical clinic, painting the fence around the cemetery, and building a wheel chair ramp for a local church. The temperature was over 100 degrees with absolutely no humidity. When you live in an area with relatively high humidity, you know that humidity intensifies the heat index. When no humidity is present, the heat feels very different - still hot, but different. You must continually hydrate your body or else. . .I was thirsty and the Christ in someone else shared with me something to drink, which most likely kept me from experiencing dehydration and numerous other complications.

What about those in our midst that are desperately waiting for the Christ in us to share with them something to drink? You know who they are, we drive by them, walk past them ignoring their pleas for help. They offer to work for us in lieu of something to eat and drink. We are a spoiled society. . .

Did you know:

  • The cost of just one case of bottled water water could supply a person in Kenya with clean, safe drinking water for the next 5 years! One case - that is 24 bottles of water.

  • Every year over $100 Billion dollars is spent on bottled water world-wide.
  • The United Nations estimates that if given just 1/6th of that money for one year, $15 billion, they could cut in half the number of people without access to clean water.
Jesus calls us to quench the thirst of all creation.
Be the Living water
Share the Living water. . .
I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink
I was thirsty. . .
You, yes you, quenched my thirst for life, for love, for hope
The thirst is real
desperate
you gave,
yes
you


Thursday, August 6, 2009

Holy Curiosity. . .


Encountering Jesus' Provocative Questions

By: Winn Collier

I love books that challenge my assumptions and established way of thinking.I love finding resources that create a desire within to carry the book around just in case I find a couple of extra minutes in my day to pull it out and read. I get excited when I have to read a paragraph, quote, or sentence more than once, twice, or beyond.

I found such a resource in Winn Collier's book: Holy Curiosity, Encountering Jesus' Provocative Questions. Collier takes scripture and challenges our common wisdom in reading the text. He gives you eyes to see it from another angle, so far, angles I have not imagined before. I am still wrestling with some of his wisdom. It is taking me deep within. . . far beyond my knowing and connecting more with my being. I am finding his writing to be honest, confessional, as well as challenging.

Who Condemns You? Why Are You Afraid? Are You Being Willfully Stupid? These are just a few of the chapters you will find in this resource.
Jesus' questions probed the soul, and they were not easily ignored. [14] Why do we think we can ignore them or simply gloss over them?

I hope you will find your way to adding Holy Curiosity to your collection of resources. I will be surprised if you do not find yourself filing it under, inspirational, insightful, and provocative.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Come and Find the Quiet Centre. . .


Come and find the quiet centre, in the crowded life we lead,

find the room for hope to enter, find the frame where we are freed:

clear the chaos and the clutter, clear our eyes, that we can see

all the things that really matter,
be at peace, and simply be.

Silence is a friend who claims us, cools the heat and slows the pace,

God it is who speaks and names us, knows our being, touches base,

making space within our thinking, lifting shades to show the sun,

raising courage when we're shrinking, finding scope for faith begun.

In the Spirit let us travel, open to each other's pain,

let our lives and fears unravel, celebrate the space we gain:

there's a place for deepest dreaming,

there's a time for heart to care, in the Spirit's lively scheming
there is always room to spare!

Come and find the quiet centre, in the crowded life we lead,

find the room for hope to enter, find the frame where we are freed:

clear the chaos and the clutter, clear our eyes, that we can see

all the things that really matter,

be at peace, and simply be.

By Shirley Erena Murray, 1989
#374 in Voices United

Monday, August 3, 2009

Camp Meetings. . .


in the great outdoors can be an amazing experience.



John Wesley taught and delivered nearly 40,000 sermons in his fifty years of ministry. Many of these sermons took place in the natural world; under shade trees, in town commons, in fields, in the rain - even downpours as well as the snow. Wesley's evangelical heart caused most to believe he was beyond his years in his progressive thinking. As you can see in the following sermon excerpt, his understanding of living a life of Christ, not only acknowledged but valued the sacred in all of creation.


"But the great lesson which our blessed Lord inculcates here . . . is that God is in all things, and that we are to see the Creator in the glass of every creature; that we should use and look upon nothing as separate from God . . . but with a true magnificence of thought, survey heaven and earth, and all that is therein as contained by God in the hollow of his hand, who by his intimate presence holds them all in being, who pervades and activates the whole created frame, and is, in a true sense, the soul of the universe."— Sermon on the Mount III (1748)


It is clear that John Wesley valued all of creation and used whatever means he could to help God's people know and experience it as well. Camp Meetings was a way of reaching the wealthy, the impoverished, the marginalized, and the least, all on common ground.


We have opportunities in our Conference to still experience the rich beauty of good ole Camp Meetings. This week August 3rd -9th, at Rock Springs Camp Meeting you have the opportunity to experience this sense of "revival" know to Wesley and others. Rock Springs Camp is located in Denver and is rich in history, tradition, and beauty all it's own. Those we spoke with have been attending this week of camp meeting since birth. Generation after generation carry on the tradition, in fact, one person even took her one month old daughter because this week was so important to the life of their entire family.


Camp Meetings are typically rich in preaching, music, and fellowship. I encourage you to check your schedule, grab a lawn chair, your insect repellent, and head on over to Camp Rock Springs. There is a great line-up of preaching and singing for the week. I highly recommend the Friday and Saturday preacher, a pretty good friend of mine.


Come check it out and we will see you there.

gloria



Friday, July 31, 2009

Five Finger Gospel. . .


"Lord, when was it that we saw you hungry and gave you food, or thirsty and gave you something to drink? And when was it that we saw you a stranger and welcomed you, or naked and gave you clothing? And when was it that we saw you sick or in prison and visited you? And the king will answer them, truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me."
Matthew 25:31-46
I was hungry and you gave me something to eat. . . instantly I think of food. I am always thinking of food - I suppose it is why I am a lifetime member of weight watchers! I have fasted, intentionally or unintentionally skipped a meal for a variety of reasons, however, I have never experienced the lack of some type of nourishment to feed my body. This is not boasting, merely confessing that I do not know what it feels like to be so hungry that I would do just about anything for the substance.
The folks at our new church home, Milford Hills UMC have and continue to bless us with food. Fresh food from their gardens, homemade cobblers, meals, and even an old time pounding to help stock out pantry. They have modeled out radical hospitality to our family in ways we have not known before. . . we are certainly blessed.
I am also thinking of another type of hunger, maybe one that I can relate to more readily than something I put in my mouth. Oddly enough, it is food that came from the mouth of others. I have experienced times in my life when I was starving for the spoken words of love, encouragement and hope. I wanted so desperately to hear these words that I worked extremely hard to fill that emptiness with other things. . . some not so healthy. I felt as though my soul was starving. My husband Chris reminded me "there are folks starving for a sense of worth, to feel as though their life has value and meaning." If you have ever had anyone dismiss or diminish the quality of your life, you have expereinced a taste of what he is talking about.
I was hungry and you gave me something to eat.
I was hungry and you fed me.
I was hungry.
You acknowledged me.
You spoke to me.
You whispered words of love to me.
You fed me.
You. . .
May the eyes of our hearts be opened to those in our midst - our world - who are starving for food; whatever that look like.
May the peace of Christ be with you.
gloria

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Say Goodbye to. . .


the non-essential resources in your church library that are taking up room and creating clutter.

We all do it. We look at the old books on our shelves, many outdated and most likely no longer relative to our culture of the 21st century, BUT we just cannot throw them away. WHY NOT? We tell ourselves it is disrespectful to throw away old resources especially if someone donated this book some 65 years ago in memory of a loved one. What about the old Bibles we continue to store with shredded binding, torn and yellowed pages, we know we would not carry them around but think there just might be someone, somewhere that could use this. Really? I mean after all, we own numerous versions of the Bible. You know what I am talking about. . . Researcher George Gallup points out that so many Bibles have been printed in the United States "that even rough estimates of the total number published to date do not exist." 92% of households in America alone own at least one Bible and the avaerage household owns three.


What now? Give yourself permission to let go of the old to make room for the new. There are agencies, libraries, collectors, and others anxiously awaiting for these old resources to make their way down the pipeline.


Let's make our church libraries conducisve for browsing, invitational, and contagious. Why not offer a coffee hour in your resource center? Comfortable chairs, a little paint, lights to read by, create an atmosphere that folks desire. Get them excited about what is available in your resource center. Highlight new resources in your newsletter or other publicity sources your church uses. Have an open house or reading session. . . be creative!


There are some classic resources you will not want to discard. . . when in doubt, ask. There are also countless dated resource you will want to discard. Take ye authority! Do what Nike says: "JUST DO IT!"


Tuesday, July 28, 2009

A Novel of Redemption. . .



Broken for You by Stephanie Kallos is a wonderful story of redemption.
Sally Holscher recommended this book on the Daily Voice and curiosity got the best of me. . . so I ordered the book. I must tell you I was not disappointed! In this beautifully created story of redemption, a community of the most unexpected folks live together in a home. Through this story of love and grace, lives are transformed through the incarnational healing power of Christ in others.
The book is richly layered, compelling, and given the chance, will drawl you into each step of the journey. Broken for You ends with thought provoking questions in the back of the book. It would be ideal for study groups, women's groups, or anyone who is ready to allow the redemptive power of God to transform their lives.
Through this book, the "God Family" image has been truly redefined! If curiosity gets the best of you and you give this book a chance, let me know what you think.
Peace of Christ be with YOU!

Friday, July 24, 2009

Mudhouse Sabbath


This new resource, Mudhouse Sabbath written by Lauren F. Winner came highly recommended to be by my friend Susan.
Lauren converted from Orthodox Judaism to Christianity and finds that her life is still shaped by the spiritual essences of Judaism - rich with religious practices and traditions that she cannot leave behind. In Mudhouse Sabbath, Lauren takes a look at eleven spiritual practices that can transform the way we view the world, and God. These practices include: sabbath, fitting food, mourning, hospitality, prayer, body, fasting, aging, candle-lighting, weddings, and doorposts. She does a beautiful job of comparing the religious practices of Judaism and Christianity, with a wonderful insight and honesty.
This resource is a quick and rich read. I recommend you view it for your personal use in addition to being a wonderful read for a group looking at all aspects of evangelism in the life of their congregations. You can find this resource at Cokesbury bookstore as well.
Happy Reading - shalom bayit: peace in the home; harmony between family members!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Spirituality in the Second Half of Life. . .


What are the signs that you have or may have entered into the second half of life?
  • You learn to be gentle with life and yourself.
  • Being successful in life looks different - more geared toward looking at the legacy your life is leaving, recognizing the presence of God in every and all moments, recalling all the names you were trying to pull up in a conversation, and finally realizing that you no longer have to be the life of the party just enjoy being there.  
  • You learn to accept life in life's terms: it is what it is and a mentality that readiness is everything.
  • You begin to nurture your inner relationship - how is it with my soul?
  • You are no longer guided by your ego but by the spirit within.
  • You develop the ability to laugh at yourself - most of the time out loud!
  • The dust on the dresser becomes a canvas for creativity.
  • You find yourself day dreaming of long walks on sandy beaches with a loved one, movies and popcorn, the warmth of the summer breeze blowing in your face. 
I suppose I better understand why folks say that the second half of life is golden. As you go about your day today, no matter what half of life you find yourself in, pause to be aware of God's presence in your midst, mind, and soul. 

May the peace of Christ be with you!
gloria   

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Shore and Ground



Keep walking, though there's no place to get to.

Don't try to see through the distances. That's not for human beings.

Move within, but don't move the way fear makes you move.

Today, like every other day, we wake up empty and frightened.

Don't open the door to the study

and begin reading. Take down a musical instrument.


Let the beauty we love be what we do.

There are hundreds of ways to kneel and kiss the ground.

Rumi

Wednesday, July 15, 2009


Summer Movie Season is here and the box office is hoppin'


The Hollywood Jesus website is dedicated to looking at "Pop Culture from a spiritual point of view." The spiritual point of view is particularly Christian featuring current releases, books, DVD's, music, comics, TV, games, etc. A few of the features of this site that you might want to take a look at are:


  • Reviews and previews

  • Columns and features

  • Critical Studies Section which is also printer friendly

  • Movie Reviews featuring a collection of reviews of 160 top films, every one of them from Hollywood Jesus spiritual perspective

  • Plays

  • Speciality books

  • Special Sttractions section that includes recommended resources, fantasy coverage, archived feature, featured attractions as well as a new 30 day challenge

When you take a look at the website, it feels like it is designed with the younger generation in mind. . . full of many items to look at, colorful, and creative in design. My simple mind has trouble functions more efficently with simple design, however, the site is pretty user friendly, even for the simple minded.


Take a look at the Hollywood Jesus website and let me know what you think.


Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Changes in our lives. . .




So, we are packing, and packing, and packing!

How in the world do we accumulate so much stuff? The better question is why? I find myself clinging to the things of our children's childhood. Why? Well, becuase they may want to use it with their children I tell myself. Really???? They want dresses and toys and VHS videos that are 20 years old? No way. They have moved on. . . then why can't I?

I find myself storing things that belonged to my mother. I am not sure why execpt I feel that holding onto these materials items, allows me to hold on to the memories of her. I know this is foolish, for the memories lie in the scrapbook of my heart, not in stuff, but I do it anyway.

Moving helps me put all this in perspective. My husband Chris has been so great at allowing me the time I need to let go of these things. He patiently packs, stores, and puts up with some of these things. He tells me that when I am ready, I will let them go. Well, I am almost there - Praise God!!!

God clings to us, not our stuff! God clings to our goodness, creativeness, love. . .US. God desires to be in relationship with us, all our flaws and quirks. . . US.

This move is opening my eyes and allowing my heart to more fully cling to the one who clings to me. Not my stuff!
Praise God!


Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Be Still. . .

and know that I am God
The following entry was inspired by Sally Holscher from the daily voice. 

We are packing to move, 
loading the pod, 
attending orientation at Eastern Carolina University with our daughter Chelsea, 
loading the pod, 
commuting to work, 
taking care of the pupdogs; walking them, feeding them, playing with them, loving on them, walking them, them walking me, 
more packing, 
attending a wedding, 
daughters high school graduation,
work, 
be still. .
breathe...
breathe deep.....
be still.......
know that I am with you always......
stop - breathe 
let go - allowing yourself to breathe in the breath of God
be still. . .
yes
I am with you
always
May you allow yourself time to stop and breath in the breathe of God. Peace my friends!

Monday, June 22, 2009

Just wondering. . .

if life was created to be enjoyed, why then do we spend so much time bickering over trivial things?

If God created us in God's own image, does that mean God wasted time complaining and arguing over pointless things as well? 

Friday, June 19, 2009

Seventy times seven?????


Then Peter came up and asked him, "Lord, how often am I to forgive my brother if he goes on wronging me? As many as seven times?" Jesus replied, "I do not say seven times; I say seventy times seven."
Seventy times seven? Really? That is 490 times! Can you imagine someone actually counting the number of times they have forgiven you? I can just see it now, my husband Chris telling me that I was nearing the end of his limit for forgiving me, or our children, our neighbors, or our God family.
Bishop Goodpaster reflected upon this text during one of the Bible studies he led at Annual Conference. He says that if you are having to count the number of times you are forgiving someone, then it is not really forgiveness. Love keeps no track of wrongs!
I know that I too was guilty of saying: "I can forgive them but will never forget." My mother helped me understand this better when she suggested that as long as you cling to the memory, the anger it created, or the hurt feelings, you have still given them control over you which means you have not really forgiven them. Right or wrong this might be, it made sense.
Let us be a people of mercy and grace; justice and forgiveness, patience and love. Afterall, it is what God does for us each and every moment of our lives.
Through the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, you are forgiven.
Amen

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Godly Play Resource. . .


Every now and then you are reminded of resources that are worth highlighting ~

Godly Play teaches children the art of using religious language - parable, sacred story, silence and liturgical action - helping them become more fully aware of the mystery of God’s presence in their lives.Developed by author, teacher and Episcopal priest, Jerome W. Berryman, Godly Play is offered throughout the United States within denominations as diverse and varied as Catholic, Baptist, Episcopalian, Pentecostal, Lutheran, and Presbyterian. Designed for children aged two to twelve, Godly Play has been classroom tested since 1972. Deeply spiritual and highly creative, Godly Play is also used in schools, hospitals, homeless shelters, and retirement centers.

Folks of all ages at the Western North Carolina Annual Conference had to opportunity to experience a Godly Play lesson during the Sunday school time. The session was led by Rev. Sallyanne McVay and her beautiful daughters. If you would like to learn more about the Godly Play resource, you are welcome to contact Sallyanne at:bmumcsallyanne@bellsouth.net or if  Godly Play is new to you, check out the website. You can also see the calendar of training events listed is your church is interested in introducing Godly Play to your congregation or community. We have many of our churches in the WNCC teaching children, youth, and even adults through the Godly Play resource.
Have fun and let me know what you think.

Monday, June 15, 2009

God is in the business of transforming us and all creation into sacred places. . . What might we need to shift/alter so that our churches can be transformed into a place of peace, hope, love, and joy for the sake of Christ?

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Holy Conferencing. . .


The Spirit of God is Alive in the Western North Carolina Conference of The United Methodist Church ~

Holy Conferencing indeed! Last week at the WNC Annual Conference, we were inspired, moved, renewed, and sent forth empowered by the movement of the Holy Spirit. It is almost as if we have just downed a 23 ounce can of a high powered energy drink - we are energized and ready to move.


Bishop Goodpaster led us in daily Bible studies and Worship focused on our mission: Follow Jesus, Make Disciples, for the Transformation of the World. No more excuses folks, we must get on board, God is depending on us! Our Bishop very clearly said: "Jesus came to be like us so that he could make us be like he, himself!" If you are asking yourself, what does that mean: we are to be the incarnation of Christ to the world, clothing ourself with love, joy, compassion, justice, mercy, and the mind of Christ. Jesus is calling us Out/Into the world, meeting the least, the lost, the grieved, the oppressed, the marginalized, the sick, all people of God.


Our work is cut out for us - are you ready? Can we do it? I pray your answer is like that of Bob the Builder. . . YES, WE CAN!!!!!


SHALOM

Monday, June 8, 2009

Call and Response. . .

Are you ready to make the required shifts necessary to help move your congregation from being focused on program development to people development in terms of core activity?

Friday, June 5, 2009

Blessing . . .


May the great, vulnerable, life-giving Spirit

guide your every coming and your every going,

that you may act justly,

love kindly,

and walk humbly

as God's friend and compaion

on this lovely, lively planet.
sam hamilton poore

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Going Green. . .


The Green Bible

I have to admit, I could not wait to purchase a copy of The Green Bible. Going green is all the rage right now - as it should be and should have been for thousands of years. So I hold this new addition in my hands - feels nice as it should since the cover is made of all natural cotton & linen. The pages are made of 10% post consumer content [recycled] and they used a soy based ink for printing. This Bible really is nice to hold, the cover is flexible/bendable and I like that. After all, if this is something I will be using most every day of my life, I want it to work for me. This Green Bible works for me!!!!!!

I love the opening Canticle of the Creatures - Saint Francis of Assisi, the forward by Archbishop Desmond Tutu as well as the introduction by J. Matthew Sleeth and others. All the scripture references connected to God's creation are printed in green. I did find one scripture that was left our of the green print: Psalm 23. oops!

The Fishing Hole is going green! Sonja has been working dilgently with other "like minded folks" to offer workshops, resources, and links that will help enable you and your congregations to go green. All the cool people are doing it! Check out the resource center at the WNCC Annual Conference on the second floor of the Terrace Hotel.

I recommend this resource for children, youth, young adults, maturing adults, families. . . well in other words, everyone!

"Additional resources include website links, group study and action guides, and a concordance that focuses on the environment. I wish that commentaries were also included with the biblical content, but that's my only major critique. This is a Bible you definitely need to have on your desk, in your church library, and in your congregants' hands!" Sally Holscher (You can view a video about it on YouTube here.)

Let me know what you think - ready to go green? Like I said, all the cool folks are doing it. . . don't get left out! gloria

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Caldecott Honor Book. . .








Zen Shorts
By: Jon J Muth

I am certain you do not have to be a child to love children's books! Our family has a stack of these delightful books ready for the occasion of grandchildren, teachable moments, or simply to reconnect with the childish delight our souls long for.



In Zen Shorts, Jon Muth uses Stillwater a giant bear to teach Addy, Michael, and Karl the most amazing lessons of life. Addy learns of a poor man who gives gifts to a robber. Stillwater teaches Michael about a farmer who know that luck can be neither judged nor predicted. Lastly Karl learns of a tale about a monk who cdarries the weight of a burden long past.

The illustrations are amazing. The story lessons are for all ages. Zen Shorts is a Caldecott Honor Book and I understand why.

Happy Reading

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Remembering. . .



A Day of Remembering

My husband Chris and I are not big NASCAR fans, however yesterday we found ourselves in the thick of folks who live for race time each year. We were offered free tickets to the race from a sweet young couple not able to attend due to the inclement weather on the regularly scheduled race day. So, we grabbed out sunglasses, bottles of water, pretzels and headed to the race.


I confess I spent as much time watching people as I did the race. Can't help it! I love to watch people interact with one another; family, friends, and yes couples. It fascinated me how the spectators all seemed so connected one to another be it through a heart for their favorite driver, favorite beverage or just a plain old love for the sport. However, at three o'clock in the afternoon, every spectator, member of a pit crew, driver, stopped for 30 seconds of silence to remember those who have given their lives for our safety and freedom. It was quiet a sight to behold. We have many common threads connecting our lives with the rest of creation. It is a beautiful thing when we stop long enough to drink in the beauty it holds.


May we all give God thanks each and every day for these folks.

Friday, May 22, 2009

Heart Treasures


"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth,
where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal;
but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven,
where neither moth nor rust consumes and where thieves do not break in and steal.
For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
Matthew 6:19-21
peace~glow

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Discovering Joy Through Simplicity and Generosity


ENOUGH By Adam Hamilton
As for those who in this present age are rich, command them not to be haughty, or to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but rather on God who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. 1 Timothy 6:17

"Live simply so that others may simply live" Ghandi
Adam Hamilton invites us to rediscover the Bible's wisdom on important financial practices. He invites us to reclaim the joy and contentment of overcoming fear through simple living and generosity. Some of the chapters you will find in this book are: When Dreams Become Nightmares, Wisdom and Finance, Cultivating Contentment and more. There is also a DVD and leaders guide available with this resource. This book is available on Amazon or at the Cokesbury bookstores.

The staff of the Western North Carolina Conference is reading this book together and will be sharing our thoughts, insights, and inspirations next week. If you have not taken a look at this book, I encourage you to preview and share it with the people in your circle of influence.

Happy Reading - let me know what you think.


Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Web Resource. . .

http://. . . . . TextWeek
is a lectionary, scripture study and worship website that provides resources and links to help you with sermon writing, lesson preparation, and even opportunities for continued education. This site is designed to help you with scripture, movie, and art indexs. It also provides podcasts of worship & liturgy, sermons, lectionary readings, and more.

I encourage you to check it out textweek, spend some time following the links and resources, then add it to your favorites page. The beauty of this site is the diversity of contirbutors as resources.
let me know what you think!

Monday, May 18, 2009

Call and Response. . .






Intrepretation of Scripture in Cultural Context?



I was with the Asheville District yesterday for the Pre-Annual Conference Briefing and Laity recognition. During my time there, I had the wonderful opportunity to meet many folks but one stands out in my mind this morning. Lena, a lovely Native American woman who passionatley loves the Native People and works hard to preserve their history and leagacy.


Lena and I began talking about cultures, traditions, ways-of-life if you will. We then spoke about the intrepretation of scripture and its revelance in cultural context for which it is being read. I suppose that is my questions for you this morning: Have you ever given this any thought?

  • Is it possible for scripture to be intrepreted differently given the difference of our customs and ethnicity?
  • Are we aware of the diversity in our worlds, communities, and churches?
  • Is so, what are you doing to honor this diversity as the whole body of Christ?
  • If not, are you willing to look at customs, traditions, and scripture as though you were the one living in a foreign land. . . for I was hungry and you feed me, I was thristy and you gave me something to drink, I was sick and in prison and you visited me, I was naked and you clothed me, and I was a stranger in a foreign land and you welcomed me! Matthew 25:31-40

Share your story. . .

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Two God Bears?????


Elisha - what is really going on?

I need some help here! As if the whole story of Elijah and Elisha is not confusing enough, we end the second chapter of 2 Kings with the story of Elisha, small boys, and two bears. Now I am guessing that most folks have never heard of this story and few have really figured out what in the world is going on so here is my version. . .
Elijah is mentoring Elisha knowing that one day he will be passing on the "prophetic mantle" to Elisha, I mean after all, Elisha did ask Elijah for a double share of his spirit. So, Elijah tells Elisha that if he sees him taken away from him (you know on a chariot of fire into heaven) that his wish will be granted. As Elijah is "going away" he drops his mantle and that's when Elisha picks up the mantle and stood on the bank of the Jordan (2Kings 2: 13) and then he parts the waters in a very similar fashion as Moses. Okay, I get all that however, verses 23-25 have caused me some distress. As Elisha is on his way to Bethel, some small boys came out of the city and jeered at him saying: "Go away, baldhead!" Well, let's just say that Elisha did not take too kindlly to this. You have to read it for yourself because I just do not get it.
The New Oxford Annotated Bible says this is an example of a man able both to bless and to cures in the name of the Lord. I do not know about you, I still don't get it.
Please feel free share your insights about this scripture text!
Blessings of "bearful", playful, joy
glow

Book Review




Contemplative by Design by Gettie L. Grimsley and Jane J. Young

"Be still and know that I am God!" - Psalm 46:10

There are numerous paths of awareness to the holy, the sacred among us. However, we fill our lives with business, chaos, and so much clutter that we miss these opportunities to be still and know God. Our minds race, our schedules control us, and our bodies give in to the stress of our daily routines, yet God waits, and waits, and waits for us. God years for us to find Sabbath for our souls. Our souls yearn to find Sabbath with God. . .



This resource is structured with 15 different ways in which to experience the holy. Each session includes an overview, developing the quiet space, readings, scripture, and even includes design for room set up for those among us who believe they are not creative. A few of the sessions are:Art, Believing Power, Breath, wind, Spirit, Life's Knots and Tangles.

You can order this resource through Cokesbury and Amazon.


The self in silence

yearns to know

to dance, be free

of fetters round her feet;

but 'til she learns

to listen with her soul,

she never will

cast off her bonds,

she will nether

the Great I Am,

she never will be whole.








Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Children's Website Resource



Every now and then, you find a website worth sharing. . .


I heard about Rev. Dr. Leanne Hadley from Leonard Sweet and the amazing ministry she had going on in Colorado Springs. Rev. Hadley is an Ordained Elder in The United Methodist Church and a specialist in the area of Children's Spirituality. She is President and Founder of First Steps Spirituality Center. I was anxious to look her up on the internet and after checking out the ministries and opportunities for intentional faith development for children, I wanted to share this website with you.
Follow this link to: First Steps Spirituality Center and work you way through the wonderful ministries, playground (yes, playground on the web), and resources for Children, however you will find this webpage is designed not only to help children but also teens, parents, grandparents, educators, and others interested adults learn and grow spiritually.
Dr. Hadley will be a keynote speaker at the FOCUS 2009 Conference in July to be held in Indianapolis.
Let me know what you think.


Leadership Matters... In December 2007, Rev. Leanne Hadley received her Doctor of Ministry in the area of spirituality and children and teens from United Theological Seminary in Dayton, Ohio. Through listening to and learning from children and teens over the course of 25 years, Rev. Leanne Hadley has developed amazingly effective healing methods that set First Steps apart. Her hands-on approach and one-on-one time with children make her ministry one that is "hands-on" rather than just a "study of."