a deacon's heart. . .

Monday, August 31, 2009

Looking Ahead to VBS 2010


I know what you are thinking. . . I cannot begin to think about VBS, I have Sunday School knocking on my front door, not to mention teacher training, organizing small groups, youth kick-off, resources to order and organize, DO NOT MENTION VBS RIGHT NOW! It is too early to plan for VBS 2010, however, while the Vacation Bible School experience is still fresh on your mind, gather some of this year's VBS servants together and have a brainstorming session.

A few things you may want to ponder together:
  • Are you satisfied with the Publishers of the curriculum you are using? Does the theology fit the vision and mission of your congregation?

  • Does your VBS have an outreach component?

  • Are your doors open to the children in your community? Youth? Adults?

  • How would you evaluate your publicity of your event? Was it effective or in-effective?

  • How can we grow our current Vacation Bible School model into a significant step in Disciple making?

  • Did you struggle getting "servants" (vs. volunteers) to sign up to help?

  • Is your current model of training, supporting, and thanking your servants effective? If not, what do you need to change?

A couple of months ago, I invited churches in the WNCC to share about their Vacation Bible School experiences, curriculum used, as well as the inclusion of a mission component. If you click on VBS - it will lead you to the responses I received from folks in our conference. I am certain they would be more than happy to be a conversation partner with you and your coordinators.

Educators and Missionaries in the Western North Carolina Conference have been working to create a VBS based on missions which includes the life and stories of children in Southeast Asia. Our goal is to have this curriculum available in the spring of 2010 as a PDF down loadable format. Stay tuned for upcoming posts of this VBS curriculum.

Until then, have fun dreaming together of ways we can truly vacation in the words, visions, and dreams of the Bible come to life.



Friday, August 28, 2009

Safe Sanctuary Training. . .



Will he held for the Western North Carolina Conference of The United Methodist Church on:
  • Wednesday, September 2 in Asheville NC
  • Thursday, September 3rd in Winston-Salem NC

We will take a look at the new issues concerning Cyber Safety and the Vulnerability of Older Adults. We will also host questions concerning Jessica's Law.

There is still time to register for either one of these Safe Sanctuary training events. Deadline for registration is Tuesday, September 1st.

Hope to see you there!

When was it we saw you a stranger and welcomed you?

"Lord, when was it that we saw you hungry and gave you food, or thirsty and gave you something to drink? And when was it that we saw you a stranger and welcomed you, or naked and gave you clothing? And when was it that we you sick or in prison and visited you? And the king will answer them, Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me. "
When was it that we saw you a stranger and welcomed you? There are two words that stand out in this part of the gospel message; the word saw and welcomed.
The word saw, past tense for see, seeing, or having being seen, requires an awareness or awakening of our visual senses. It implies our eyes are opened and we are paying attention. Let me say that again. . . our eyes are open; to the needs of those around us.

Not only do we see who is around us, but the eyes of our hearts are moving with compassion, grace, and love, being attentive to the needs of others. We welcomed you as the incarnation of Christ to the world. We reminded you of the value your life holds. We worked to salvage and protect your dignity, allowing you opportunity to bask in the grace and love of Jesus. "For it was you who formed my inward parts; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully meade." Psalm 139:13-14
We vow to take care of you,
to love you through the love of Christ,
to help you pick up your mat and walk.

God of all creation,
Open the eyes of our hearts to see and know the needs of your world.
Empower us, your people to see all creation with your eyes,
valued, wonderfully made, and unconditionally loved.
Open the eyes of our hearts Lord.
Open the eyes of our hearts.
Open our eyes.
We want to see you.

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Rule of St. Benedict. . .

Let us get up then,

at long last,

for the Scriptures rouse us when they say:

It is high time for us

to arise from sleep.

Let us open our eyes

to the light that comes from God,

and our ears to the voice from heaven

that every day calls out this charge:

If you hear his voice today,

do not harden your hearts.

Rule of St. Benedict

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Seven words that kill the spirit and life of a congregation. . .

WE HAVEN'T DONE IT THAT WAY BEFORE!
Really?

What are you implying when you speak those words?


What does it feels like to have these words thrown your way?


I confess the first thing I hear is the slamming of a door. Boom - I'm done!

My gut reaction is to turn and run the other way.
You just as well put a big neon sign in the front of your church signifying:
closed to progress,
closed to the movement of the spirit,
closed to and for life!

Really?
I just cannot imagine God's preferred vision for the kingdom sitting idle because we are fearful of moving in and towards a direction we do not know. These seven words have the potential of paralyzing a congregation with their inability to change.
Change signifies movement.
Change can be very exciting.

I have learned that some folks not only embrace change, but are looking for it in every aspect of life, while others do everything in their power to avoid such movement.
Change is the one and only constant in our lives outside of the abundant unconditional love and grace of God.
Our bodies change, our climate is changing, our minds are changing. . . why not our attitudes?
Imagine for a moment if you will, a life without change. . .
Scary isn't it? Transportation would not exist as we know it, nor would our modes of communication. No television, radio, computer, cell phone . . . hard to allow your minds to go there? It is for me.

The Spirit of God is moving, flowing, rushing like a mighty river. Are we as a church going to plant our feet in the every flowing steam of life because we are afraid of what might lie ahead, staggering to keep our balance or our we going to jump in, flowing with the rushing, changing, current of life?
What direction is God leading you. . .

The folks in the life of your congregation?

In ways that best honor God's kingdom here on earth?

In the community?

Into the world?

Maybe, we will never do it that way again.
Maybe, just maybe that is what God is calling us to imagine.
God is calling us:
to movement
to change,
to life!




Thursday, August 20, 2009

Leadership and Self Deception


getting out of the box
The Arbinger Institute

I like to consider myself one who thinks and lives outside the box. However, this read gracefully led me to a deeper examination of my own character encouraging me to reconsider which side of the box I actually do live in.

"Self-betrayal - is an act contrary to what we feel we should do for another." In other words, we know better but do it anyways. If I cut off someone in traffic, I not only have gotten in their space but potentially put their life in danger. Why then would I do such a thing when I know well the possible consequences. In other words, I have now put the other driver in a position to be aggressive, fearful, or just mad as heck, most likely an act contrary to what they feel they should be doing. So back to the question, why then do we do such things? We are probably functioning out of fear, self-doubt, jealousy, preoccupation, to name a few hopefully contrary to our core!

If we know better, why then do we continue this behavior?
How do we break this cycle of putting others in the box?
If I am functioning in the box, am I building up the body of Christ with my behaviors?

Leadership and Self-Deception is an easy read. Not as complicated as it sounds!
If you find yourself in any leadership role or if you are willing to take a deeper look within, I recommend this resource. It would also be a good read for a team to read together.

Check it out and let me know if you were surprised at what you learned.
Blessings of discovery!

Monday, August 17, 2009

Church and Me. . .



From A to Z
By: Wendi Martin

What a fun discovery for teaching children about the church; the life and body of Christ. Wendi has taken the components of the life and ministry of scripture and the church and provided a wonderful resource for teaching young children.
The front page of the book offers space for children to make this resource personal; inviting them to internalize the words, stories, and images they are experiencing. Each letter of the alphabet represents a word, then defined below and followed by a scripture reference. Wendi uses a caterpillar at the bottom of each page to journey through the alphabet, ending the journey as a beautiful butterfly. Nice! The caterpillar also prompts such questions as: what is special about the sanctuary (S for Sanctuary) in your church? or if they have ever prayed at the altar (yes, A is for altar)?

At the bottom of each page the children are prompted with questions i.e. "what is special about the sanctuary (S-Sanctuary) in your church?" or asking them if they have ever prayed at the altar of their church ( A for Altar). The photo illustrations capture the life and community of Bethlehem United Methodist Church in Climax North Carolina.
It is beautifully created.
Thank you Wendi.

You may purchase a copy of Church and Me From A to Z. You may also reserve a copy of this resource and other valuable resources to use in your congregation from the Fishin Hole, the Western North Carolina Conference Resource Center.




Tuesday, August 11, 2009

The Joy and Blessing of Affirmations. . .

You know what I am talking about; the occasional "ada-girl" or "great job" we are fortunate enough to get from peers, supervisors, spouses, or on the rare occasion our children. Our need as well as our desire for affirmation is real. I see how Gracie and Zoe, our lab puppies respond to praise. . . there again, they respond to just about anything that has a treat connected with it. 

Think about it, we sometimes work overtime in our jobs for an extra pat on the back. I have watched our adolescent daughter take hours getting ready to be with friends to hear the words: "you look great." Let's face it, affirmations feel good. We want to feel that our life has value, our contributions are valued, and our work is not done in vane. 

Hear the good news: You are fearlessly, marvelously, and wonderfully made. God takes delight in you! How does that feel? Can you allow yourself time to let that sink in? 
YOU, yes you are wonderfully made! 
God takes delight in you. A delight beyond our human understanding. 

As you go forth into this week, this day, even this very moment in time, allow yourself to be lost in the beauty and grace of God's constant presence in your life. 
Hear God speaking these words to you: 
I love you my beloved child.
You are marvelously made. 
You are beautiful in my sight.
I love YOU.

May we strive to honor God in all we do in and with our lives. . . there we will find the ultimate affirmation!       

Friday, August 7, 2009

I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink. . .



"Lord, when was it that we saw you hungry and gave you food, or thirsty and gave you something to drink? And when was it that we saw you a stranger and welcomed you, or naked and gave you clothing? And when was it that we saw you sick or in prison and visited you? And the king will answer them, truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me."
Matthew 25:31-46


While on a mission trip out on the Navajo reservation, we were cleaning around a medical clinic, painting the fence around the cemetery, and building a wheel chair ramp for a local church. The temperature was over 100 degrees with absolutely no humidity. When you live in an area with relatively high humidity, you know that humidity intensifies the heat index. When no humidity is present, the heat feels very different - still hot, but different. You must continually hydrate your body or else. . .I was thirsty and the Christ in someone else shared with me something to drink, which most likely kept me from experiencing dehydration and numerous other complications.

What about those in our midst that are desperately waiting for the Christ in us to share with them something to drink? You know who they are, we drive by them, walk past them ignoring their pleas for help. They offer to work for us in lieu of something to eat and drink. We are a spoiled society. . .

Did you know:

  • The cost of just one case of bottled water water could supply a person in Kenya with clean, safe drinking water for the next 5 years! One case - that is 24 bottles of water.

  • Every year over $100 Billion dollars is spent on bottled water world-wide.
  • The United Nations estimates that if given just 1/6th of that money for one year, $15 billion, they could cut in half the number of people without access to clean water.
Jesus calls us to quench the thirst of all creation.
Be the Living water
Share the Living water. . .
I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink
I was thirsty. . .
You, yes you, quenched my thirst for life, for love, for hope
The thirst is real
desperate
you gave,
yes
you


Thursday, August 6, 2009

Holy Curiosity. . .


Encountering Jesus' Provocative Questions

By: Winn Collier

I love books that challenge my assumptions and established way of thinking.I love finding resources that create a desire within to carry the book around just in case I find a couple of extra minutes in my day to pull it out and read. I get excited when I have to read a paragraph, quote, or sentence more than once, twice, or beyond.

I found such a resource in Winn Collier's book: Holy Curiosity, Encountering Jesus' Provocative Questions. Collier takes scripture and challenges our common wisdom in reading the text. He gives you eyes to see it from another angle, so far, angles I have not imagined before. I am still wrestling with some of his wisdom. It is taking me deep within. . . far beyond my knowing and connecting more with my being. I am finding his writing to be honest, confessional, as well as challenging.

Who Condemns You? Why Are You Afraid? Are You Being Willfully Stupid? These are just a few of the chapters you will find in this resource.
Jesus' questions probed the soul, and they were not easily ignored. [14] Why do we think we can ignore them or simply gloss over them?

I hope you will find your way to adding Holy Curiosity to your collection of resources. I will be surprised if you do not find yourself filing it under, inspirational, insightful, and provocative.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Come and Find the Quiet Centre. . .


Come and find the quiet centre, in the crowded life we lead,

find the room for hope to enter, find the frame where we are freed:

clear the chaos and the clutter, clear our eyes, that we can see

all the things that really matter,
be at peace, and simply be.

Silence is a friend who claims us, cools the heat and slows the pace,

God it is who speaks and names us, knows our being, touches base,

making space within our thinking, lifting shades to show the sun,

raising courage when we're shrinking, finding scope for faith begun.

In the Spirit let us travel, open to each other's pain,

let our lives and fears unravel, celebrate the space we gain:

there's a place for deepest dreaming,

there's a time for heart to care, in the Spirit's lively scheming
there is always room to spare!

Come and find the quiet centre, in the crowded life we lead,

find the room for hope to enter, find the frame where we are freed:

clear the chaos and the clutter, clear our eyes, that we can see

all the things that really matter,

be at peace, and simply be.

By Shirley Erena Murray, 1989
#374 in Voices United

Monday, August 3, 2009

Camp Meetings. . .


in the great outdoors can be an amazing experience.



John Wesley taught and delivered nearly 40,000 sermons in his fifty years of ministry. Many of these sermons took place in the natural world; under shade trees, in town commons, in fields, in the rain - even downpours as well as the snow. Wesley's evangelical heart caused most to believe he was beyond his years in his progressive thinking. As you can see in the following sermon excerpt, his understanding of living a life of Christ, not only acknowledged but valued the sacred in all of creation.


"But the great lesson which our blessed Lord inculcates here . . . is that God is in all things, and that we are to see the Creator in the glass of every creature; that we should use and look upon nothing as separate from God . . . but with a true magnificence of thought, survey heaven and earth, and all that is therein as contained by God in the hollow of his hand, who by his intimate presence holds them all in being, who pervades and activates the whole created frame, and is, in a true sense, the soul of the universe."— Sermon on the Mount III (1748)


It is clear that John Wesley valued all of creation and used whatever means he could to help God's people know and experience it as well. Camp Meetings was a way of reaching the wealthy, the impoverished, the marginalized, and the least, all on common ground.


We have opportunities in our Conference to still experience the rich beauty of good ole Camp Meetings. This week August 3rd -9th, at Rock Springs Camp Meeting you have the opportunity to experience this sense of "revival" know to Wesley and others. Rock Springs Camp is located in Denver and is rich in history, tradition, and beauty all it's own. Those we spoke with have been attending this week of camp meeting since birth. Generation after generation carry on the tradition, in fact, one person even took her one month old daughter because this week was so important to the life of their entire family.


Camp Meetings are typically rich in preaching, music, and fellowship. I encourage you to check your schedule, grab a lawn chair, your insect repellent, and head on over to Camp Rock Springs. There is a great line-up of preaching and singing for the week. I highly recommend the Friday and Saturday preacher, a pretty good friend of mine.


Come check it out and we will see you there.

gloria